No contact at all after break up, said she still loved me but now what?

So after our break up (caused by argueing more and more lately) she deleted me off facebook. After that we had a talk and she said she didnt do it to get over me easier (thats what I asked) but to not be remembered by it so much and all.



Also she said she loves me but is unsure, and also scared that we'd argue if we'd get back together again. Also she said what'd happen if we didnt see each other for a few months. I said I didn't like the idea, scared that one or another might lose feelings and I care too much for her to drop it like this.



We had a laugh and after that ended conversation. Then a few days later I texted her I agreed breaking up was the best for us. (People said it was better to accept it and move on a bit, and she'd get back..)



It has been 3 weeks now since the break up. 1 week since I tried re-adding her on skype, but she didnt accept it. And now around 12 days since I didnt do any contact or whatsoever.



What can I do? It's obvious she wants some space right now, maybe she is still confused, but I want her to tell me if she is going to completely forget about me. Valentine's Day is coming up soon, last year at that day we basicly started feeling feelings for each other.



What should I do, text her asking how things are, and saying I remember valentine's day last year and it made me smile when I thought of it? Or leave her be for another few weeks 2-3 and see if she contacts me..



Man, I'm getting really frustrated by this. I want to get back together and work on the things that led to argues in the first place and fix our communication. We both agreed on what went wrong, and how we could've improved those, at the time we had our talk.



Thanks in advance, you're all hero's.No contact at all after break up, said she still loved me but now what?
I know this hurts and I've been there. Just hand in there. It's important for you to be strong right now. If she wants space, give her some space. Girls don't like guys to be clingy when they're unsure about the relationship. The smartest thing to do would be to give her that space.



Now, this is a two parter.

1) In giving her that space you'll learn if she really misses you or not. If she contacts you then you know she still cares about you and wants to work on the relationship since you gave her the space she needed.

2)It's important to use this time to work on yourself in case she doesn't come around and contact you. You have to prepare yourself for the very real possibility that she may not want to me with you anymore but is afraid of saying it in s clear and straightforward manner due to a fear of hurting you (also a possible sense of guilt). By working on yourself and preparing for the worst in this scenario you are not only showing her that you are capable of taking care of yourself but that you're strong. There's also a chance that this behavior may attract someone better suited for you.



Whatever you do it's important to stay positive and keep giving it your best every day. It does get better.